When I learned to drive, it was a manual. It wasn't anything fancy (1993 VW Eurovan), but it was still a manual. Almost all automatics will be faster than manuals in today's world, but I don't care; I won't ever be owning a car with one.
Andrew - Unfortunately,
Lamborghini is preparing to show it's fabulous gated shifer the door. Only 1%-2% of Lamborghini's produced today are equipped with manual transmissions, and it is becoming harder and more expensive to certify and develop manual transmissions for automobiles today. Furthermore, I doubt the typical Lamborghini customer cares much at all about driver involvement, and doesn't see why they would want to shift gears in one.
TYI - I agree with you about the Alfa Romeo 4C. It will be priced against the BMW M3/M4, which I have heard has about a 40% manual take rate. It's also fairly light-weight for a modern car, and would fit with a manual perfectly.
Amos - The M5 is available with a manual (in the U.S.), but it has gotten poor reviews and from what I have heard it is overly hard to drive smoothly - even for professionals.
Jason - Any modern automatic is faster than it's manual counterpart; that's why Ferrari, Lamborghini, McLaren, and unfortunately Aston Martin have/are beginning to phase out their manuals. But a manual is much more involving. I learned to drive on one, and can honestly say that no automatic out there - whether it's a PDK, DSG, F1, E-Gear - can be as fun and involving to drive as a manual. I don't have any respect for car "enthusiasts" who buy sporty cars with automatics unless they can't physically drive them. No respect whatsoever.